The first time I made this, I thought, “How fancy can a ham-and-cheese sandwich really be?” Reader, I was wrong. I scorched the top under the grill, forgot to season the sauce, and used supermarket sliced ham that tasted like regret. But once I slowed down and treated each step with careโhello Dijon, buttery grilled bread, thick cheesy sauceโit became one of my go-to quick comforts.
This isnโt a Tuesday sandwich. This is a put-the-kettle-on-and-pretend-you’re-in-Paris sandwich.
WHY THIS ONE WORKS SO WELL
- Two textures of cheese: Melted inside and bubbling on top. Itโs a cheese loverโs dream.
- Toasted buttered bread: Crisps up golden on one side, stays soft on the other. The perfect bite.
- Punchy Dijon: Donโt skip it. It cuts through the richness and makes everything pop.
- Gruyรจre: Melts like a dream and has real flavourโnot just bland goo.
Most recipes throw cheese on top and call it a day. This one doubles down with a silky cheese sauce you make freshโand itโs worth it.
INGREDIENTS + WHY THEY MATTER
- White bread (4 slices) โ Medium thickness is best. Too thin and it collapses, too thick and it dominates.
- Butter (50g) โ Half for brushing bread, half for the sauce. Gives richness and golden colour.
- Dijon mustard (2 tbsp) โ Adds zing. If youโre not a fan, use lessโbut donโt leave it out.
- Smoked ham (4 slices) โ Thinly sliced, good quality. Adds depth without overpowering.
- Gruyรจre (100g) โ Coarsely grated. Melts beautifully, doesnโt go stringy.
- Plain flour (15g) โ Thickens the sauce.
- Full-fat milk (150ml) โ Hot milk blends smoothly and speeds things up.
- Nutmeg (pinch) โ Just a whisper. Donโt overdo it. Optional, but lovely.
- Salt + pepper โ Essential. Taste your sauce and donโt skimp.
WANT TO CHANGE IT UP? HEREโS HOW
- No Gruyรจre? Emmental or Comtรฉ work well. Even a strong cheddar will do in a pinch.
- No ham? Use cooked turkey, or skip the meat and add wilted spinach or mushrooms for a veggie twist.
- Going posh? Add a fried egg on top and make it a Croque Madame.
- Bread swap? Sourdough or brioche slices can be stunningโjust toast them a bit longer.
MISTAKES IโVE MADE (AND HOW TO AVOID THEM)
What Went Wrong | Why It Happens | How to Fix It |
---|---|---|
Burnt top | Grill too hot, too close | Use medium heat + watch like a hawk |
Lumpy sauce | Added milk too fast | Whisk slowly, bit by bit |
Soggy bottom slice | Bread too soft or under-toasted | Use firmer bread + toast one side only |
Cheese slid off | Sauce too thin | Let it thicken before topping |
HOW TO MAKE MARY BERRYโS CROQUE MONSIEUR
PREP THE GRILL
Preheat to medium. Line a tray with foil.
TOAST THE BREAD
Melt half the butter. Brush one side of each bread slice. Grill buttered side up for 1โ2 mins till golden.
ASSEMBLE THE SANDWICHES
Flip slices over. Spread unbuttered side with Dijon. On two slices, layer ham + half the cheese. Top with other bread slices (golden side up).
MAKE THE CHEESE SAUCE
Melt remaining butter in a pan. Stir in flour. Gradually whisk in hot milk. Stir until thickened. Off heat, add nutmeg + 25g cheese. Season to taste.
TOP + GRILL
Spread sauce over sandwich tops. Sprinkle with remaining cheese. Grill 5 mins until golden and bubbling.
COOL + SERVE
Let sit 1 min before slicingโthe cheese sets slightly and makes it easier to eat.
TIPS FROM MY KITCHEN
- I always toast just one side of the bread so the inside stays soft and melds with the cheese.
- Use a microplane for the nutmegโyou only need a few shavings.
- If making for a crowd, prep the sauce ahead and assemble sandwiches just before grilling.
- I freeze extra cheese sauce in a little tub for quick lunchtime toasties.
STORAGE + SERVING
- Fridge: Cooled leftovers keep in the fridge up to 3 days.
- Freezer: Wrap tightly in foil, freeze for 1 month. Thaw overnight in fridge.
- Reheat: Oven at 180ยฐC (350ยฐF) for 10โ15 mins. Microwave works but softens the bread.
- Serve with: Green salad, cornichons, or tomato soup on the side.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Q: Can I make the cheese sauce ahead of time?
A: Yesโstore in the fridge and reheat gently before using. Whisk if it separates.
Q: Can I skip the grill and use the oven?
A: Yep, bake at 200ยฐC (180ยฐC fan) for 10 mins instead. Not quite as crisp, but still delicious.
Q: Whatโs the difference between Croque Monsieur and Madame?
A: The Madame has a fried egg on top. The Monsieur is all about that cheese sauce.
Q: Can I use pre-sliced cheese?
A: You can, but it wonโt melt or mix into the sauce quite the same. Grating is better here.
Try More Recipes:
- Mary Berry Eggy Bread Avocado and Ham Sandwich
- Mary Berry Smoked Salmon Canapรฉ Sandwiches
- Mary Berry Pan Fried Falafel
Mary Berry Croque Monsieur
Course: BreakfastCuisine: French-InspiredDifficulty: Easy2
servings7
minutes10
minutes800
kcalA gloriously golden ham-and-cheese sandwich topped with creamy Gruyรจre sauce and grilled until bubbling. Perfect for lunch, brunch, or whenever you fancy a bit of Parisian comfort food.
Ingredients
50g butter
4 medium white bread slices
2 tbsp Dijon mustard
4 thin slices smoked ham
100g Gruyรจre cheese, grated
15g plain flour
150ml hot full-fat milk
Freshly grated nutmeg
Salt + pepper to taste
Directions
- Preheat grill to medium. Line tray with foil.
- Melt half the butter, brush bread on one side, and grill that side until golden.
- Flip, spread mustard on unbuttered side. Layer ham and half the cheese on two slices. Top with remaining bread.
- Melt rest of butter, stir in flour. Gradually whisk in hot milk until thick. Remove from heat, stir in nutmeg, 25g cheese, salt + pepper.
- Spread sauce on top of sandwiches, sprinkle with remaining cheese. Grill until bubbling and golden.
- Let rest 1 min. Slice + serve immediately.
Notes
- I once used pre-shredded cheeseโregretted it instantly. It clumps instead of melting smooth.
- Donโt skip the Dijon, even if youโre unsure. It adds contrast to the richness.
- If your sauce is too thin, just cook it a little longer over medium heatโit thickens quickly.